India’s women far ahead of its men
Guys - our women have changed!
It is a truism that women are always leagues ahead of men in being modern and shedding orthodoxy. This can just be seen from our mother vs. father or grandma vs. grandpa comparisons.
But a recent survey in our cities gives results which have even outpaced my predictions!
For starters,
In big metro areas, 24% say they never want children, and that number reaches 40% in smaller cities.
This survey gives many more startling news:
Fifty-one per cent of young single women in major metro areas say it’s necessary to have a big house and big car to be happy. In smaller cities, 86% agreed with this statement.
Sixty-seven per cent say they plan to take care of their parents into their old age — and that means they need money.
Sixty-five per cent say dating is essential, and they also want to become financially independent before they marry. More than three-quarters — 76% — say they want to maintain that independence afterward. Sixty per cent say they’ll decide how to spend their own salaries.
A surprising 45% of young single females say they would like to be journalists.Another 39% say they would like to be managers, 38% are interested in design, and 20% think they want to be teachers. Interestingly, 13% say they would like to be in the military.
It is very heartening to read that our “female youth” have matured beyond recognition! This was bound to happen and this survey is a very welcome eye-opener. The woman has become very independent, free-thinking and free.
Isn’t it true that Indian women are far more fortunate than their Western counterparts? I mean, many Western women still don’t have as much freedom as most urban Indian woman. It would be even greater if I could remove the word “urban”.
Do you agree that this is good?
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So the question, dear Indian Husbands are you ready to come in 21st Century reality or still prefer to stay in 16th Century mind set???
As per them as soon as they get a MBA degree, Indian wives get:-
- Whole sale free license for multiple adult rite relationship
- Whole sale free license for abuse and sending Jail your age old Parents and Pregent sister
- Whole sale free license for killing your Child
- Whole sale free license for Child abuse under single parenting system
- Whole sale free license for asking her husband to kiss her feet every day morning
- Whole sale free license to refuse a cup of tea with husband in the morning, because they will be busy at mid night Pub for “TAKILA” drink and 555 Cigarettes.
The story does not end here, they want each and every think as per 21st century, but when it comes for break up (as 55% divorce case filed by wives with a 498a, dowry harassment case) want huge money in the name of abala nari (16th century Indian wives) like maintance, alimony, house..etc. That time they suddenly forget their MBA degree and start claiming she is a Perfect Indian Wife and she deserves all the sympathy as per Indian Institution of Marriage
Yes, the good news is women are far ahead of the men India in reality. Theories may not match the reality.
Beti should be protected and Beta when grown up should be protected too. There has to be an equilibrium.
the reasons explained…Take your time to read.
http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/01/they-do-wrong-but-never-get-caught.html
- Jinesh.
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I do agree that there are some women like you mentioned who do go ahead but forget that they are women after all, but there are some of us who still keep our values in tact , I dont think modern women should be generalised that way..
If Indian women are so free then how come you hardly see any on the streets of indian cities.
I travelled widely in India recently - but what struck me about Bangalore and Chennai - was the lack of women freely going about their business. There were hordes of men everywhere and the occasional woman chaperoned by a husband or male relative.
Can women not be trusted to go out alone or with other female friends?
Freedom can be defined - as The condition of being free of restraints.
India contrasts with most of Europe - where women can go where they want to when they want to and with whom they want to.
This is clearly not the case in Bangalore or Chennai.
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Some of my friend send this blog link and say swarup , just look the reality of so called Indian women , which tempeted me to share another side of story , hope a lot of people does not understand as Ms. Shobha de , says , Indian man are living in 16th century mind set and indian women had gone far far ahead of 21st century .
Sub: “Beti Bachaao” (Save Daughter) - Saturday Evening Party at India Gate- New Delhi
Sachit , 30 years old , a brilliant Software Consultant, BE, till date who is struggling to register an FIR or any Small Investigation by Local Police officials , how his wife and her Parents had killed his Daughter , send the below mail to me :-
“This is regarding The ‘Beti Bachaao’ Programme, organised at India Gate NewDelhi, on 04-03-2006 evening.
Mrs. Sheila Dixit was also present there includingaround 4000 women. Today (05-03-2006) I watched (a news) at a reputed TV news Channel regarding“Women’s Day” function at India Gate, New Delhi.
According to the news : There were over 4000 (Over Four Thousand) womenpresent (including Mrs. Sheela Dixit - Hon’ble CM Delhi) at this occasion. Save daughter (Beti Bachaao – slogan of the programme).
Initially, I was really thrilled to hear “Beti Bachaao – slogan” of theprogramme. I was delighted to expect something really relevant to save thedaughters (specially the unborn/newly born daughters).
But to my surprise (even still I can’t believe what I saw on TV)… a couple ofyoung girls are playing the popular hindi film songs (Mera Yaar Mila De Mujhko-Remix - DJ) and dancing there….. I felt ashamed/pity to see the ‘way’ they are trying to save our daughters –By dancing on DJ at India Gate… I wonder how can they save my daughter by organizing ‘Kitty party’ typefunction at India gate in the evening (in addition to that Saturday Evening!!!!).
They also lit some candles (as a mark of hope), organized dance party (as amark of enjoyment), eating samosas (feeling hungry after dance), havingtea/coffee etc…..
Sorry to admit : They can do these activities at their own level every Saturday evening in a pub/club. I want to request them to STOP playing such tunes on the name of SaveDaughters (as I have already lost one)….
I want to request them to please don’t harm the already striken parent (like me) by dancing at India gate on Saturday evening on the name of Save Daughter (Beti Bachaao).
I suggest : Even if out of that 4000 women, every women tries to save onedaughter (Beti) by inspecting the ‘Abortion Centres’ records, they (alltogether) could have saved atleast 40000 (forty thousand) daughters (Betis). Also, I wish my daughter (Beti) were ONE out of that FORTY THOUSAND DAUGHTERS”.
This is not the feeling of only Sachit , Lakhs of Sachit all over the India are making round the police station and court room , as thier wives had allready aborted their Daughters , without their any consent , started to raising thier voice in Save Indian Child Yahoo Groups ( SIF Volenters ) .
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SaveIndianChild
One hand our so called Women Orginasations are supported by our own hard earned Tax Payer money , are busy for the Dance Show at India Gate , SIF Volenters are busy at the Back Side of India gate ( Patilawal Court Room ) , arguing with Judges , why those Criminal should not be punished who had Killed thier Daughters , before their Born .
We wonder , our NCW have really any concern for Murder of our Daughters !!!!
Otherwise how so many 498A girls and thier family able to kill the child and move freely in our society ??
Can we expect a Special LAW , by which those people Killing our Daughters along with those abortion centers , to be hang till the death under IPC314/315 ??
Let Ban the Child Abortion in India and then prodly say “”Beti Bachaao” (Save Daughter) ” instead of making fun /enjoyment at India Gate .