India’s women far ahead of its men
Posted by Sooraj • on 10/03/05 • under Pride,Society • Tags: society, Women
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Guys – our women have changed!
It is a truism that women are always leagues ahead of men in being modern and shedding orthodoxy. This can just be seen from our mother vs. father or grandma vs. grandpa comparisons.
But a recent survey in our cities gives results which have even outpaced my predictions!
For starters,
In big metro areas, 24% say they never want children, and that number reaches 40% in smaller cities.
This survey gives many more startling news:
Fifty-one per cent of young single women in major metro areas say it’s necessary to have a big house and big car to be happy. In smaller cities, 86% agreed with this statement.
Sixty-seven per cent say they plan to take care of their parents into their old age — and that means they need money.
Sixty-five per cent say dating is essential, and they also want to become financially independent before they marry. More than three-quarters — 76% — say they want to maintain that independence afterward. Sixty per cent say they’ll decide how to spend their own salaries.
A surprising 45% of young single females say they would like to be journalists.Another 39% say they would like to be managers, 38% are interested in design, and 20% think they want to be teachers. Interestingly, 13% say they would like to be in the military.
It is very heartening to read that our “female youth” have matured beyond recognition! This was bound to happen and this survey is a very welcome eye-opener. The woman has become very independent, free-thinking and free.
Isn’t it true that Indian women are far more fortunate than their Western counterparts? I mean, many Western women still don’t have as much freedom as most urban Indian woman. It would be even greater if I could remove the word “urban”.
Do you agree that this is good?
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Some of my friend send this blog link and say swarup , just look the reality of so called Indian women , which tempeted me to share another side of story , hope a lot of people does not understand as Ms. Shobha de , says , Indian man are living in 16th century mind set and indian women had gone far far ahead of 21st century .
Sub: “Beti Bachaao” (Save Daughter) – Saturday Evening Party at India Gate- New Delhi
Sachit , 30 years old , a brilliant Software Consultant, BE, till date who is struggling to register an FIR or any Small Investigation by Local Police officials , how his wife and her Parents had killed his Daughter , send the below mail to me :-
“This is regarding The ‘Beti Bachaao’ Programme, organised at India Gate NewDelhi, on 04-03-2006 evening.
Mrs. Sheila Dixit was also present there includingaround 4000 women. Today (05-03-2006) I watched (a news) at a reputed TV news Channel regarding“Women’s Day†function at India Gate, New Delhi.
According to the news : There were over 4000 (Over Four Thousand) womenpresent (including Mrs. Sheela Dixit – Hon’ble CM Delhi) at this occasion. Save daughter (Beti Bachaao – slogan of the programme).
Initially, I was really thrilled to hear “Beti Bachaao – slogan†of theprogramme. I was delighted to expect something really relevant to save thedaughters (specially the unborn/newly born daughters).
But to my surprise (even still I can’t believe what I saw on TV)… a couple ofyoung girls are playing the popular hindi film songs (Mera Yaar Mila De Mujhko-Remix – DJ) and dancing there….. I felt ashamed/pity to see the ‘way’ they are trying to save our daughters –By dancing on DJ at India Gate… I wonder how can they save my daughter by organizing ‘Kitty party’ typefunction at India gate in the evening (in addition to that Saturday Evening!!!!).
They also lit some candles (as a mark of hope), organized dance party (as amark of enjoyment), eating samosas (feeling hungry after dance), havingtea/coffee etc…..
Sorry to admit : They can do these activities at their own level every Saturday evening in a pub/club. I want to request them to STOP playing such tunes on the name of SaveDaughters (as I have already lost one)….
I want to request them to please don’t harm the already striken parent (like me) by dancing at India gate on Saturday evening on the name of Save Daughter (Beti Bachaao).
I suggest : Even if out of that 4000 women, every women tries to save onedaughter (Beti) by inspecting the ‘Abortion Centres’ records, they (alltogether) could have saved atleast 40000 (forty thousand) daughters (Betis). Also, I wish my daughter (Beti) were ONE out of that FORTY THOUSAND DAUGHTERS”.
This is not the feeling of only Sachit , Lakhs of Sachit all over the India are making round the police station and court room , as thier wives had allready aborted their Daughters , without their any consent , started to raising thier voice in Save Indian Child Yahoo Groups ( SIF Volenters ) .
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SaveIndianChild
One hand our so called Women Orginasations are supported by our own hard earned Tax Payer money , are busy for the Dance Show at India Gate , SIF Volenters are busy at the Back Side of India gate ( Patilawal Court Room ) , arguing with Judges , why those Criminal should not be punished who had Killed thier Daughters , before their Born .
We wonder , our NCW have really any concern for Murder of our Daughters !!!!
Otherwise how so many 498A girls and thier family able to kill the child and move freely in our society ??
Can we expect a Special LAW , by which those people Killing our Daughters along with those abortion centers , to be hang till the death under IPC314/315 ??
Let Ban the Child Abortion in India and then prodly say “”Beti Bachaao” (Save Daughter) ” instead of making fun /enjoyment at India Gate .